Put A Bonnet Or Beard On It And It Sells

Posted: March 6, 2013

Amish Cook

Editor’s Note: This column was written by Kevin Williams, editor of the “The Amish Cook” column. Lovina Eicher will return next week.
“Oh you shouldn’t have done that.”
“Why not?” I asked.
“Because I’ll move here and take this piece and then this one,” the Amish man said with a hearty laugh, eyes twinkling and prominent white beard casting a shadow over the well-worn board. It was the checkers equivalent of checkmate.
“Here, I’ll let you take that move back and start over,” he said charitably.
I should have known better than to challenge a champion checker player to a match. He creamed me in three straight games before we headed out into the beautiful Holmes County, Ohio, countryside for a great lunch and conversation.
“You’ll find someone for your show, I’m sure of it,” the 70-year-old Amish man said when we parted ways. “And you’re welcome to stay here any time.”
It was a similar refrain, heard from Amish friends across the country over the past six months.
“This show really isn’t a bad idea. It’s probably not right for our family, but you’ll find someone. I know you will, you just have to keep looking,” said one Amish minister in Ohio, his brown beard neatly trimmed and gold-rimmed spectacles gleaming.
And so I did keep looking. I looked among the incredibly kind Amish of Manton, Mich. I parleyed with an Amish bishop in Virginia at his mountaintop lair, I explored the warren of roads which honeycomb Holmes County, Ohio, and I stood on the wind-swept prairies of Kansas. All the while, I met and spent time with amazingly accommodating and open-minded Amish families.
Lately, television has had an itch for the Amish. So, they’ve scratched it with shows that have become wildly popular such as the Discovery Channel’s “Amish Mafia” and TLC’s “Breaking Amish.”
Television has stumbled upon what so many would-be novelists have discovered: Put a bonnet or beard on it and it sells. As someone who has worked in relative obscurity over the past two decades to provide a balanced picture of “plain” life, I’m excited that there is so much interest in the Amish. I think there’s a lot we can learn from this fascinating religion and culture.
I’m not sure, however, if such shows are the way to go about it. Not that TV and the Amish, if done right, are totally incompatible. There have been a handful of wonderfully informative programs about the Amish.
So, it was with a real sense of intrigue that I listened to several production companies, which approached me last summer about developing a TV series based on my Amish experiences. It was a time in my life when I was — and still am — searching for a way to infuse all of my Amish friendships and travels with deeper meaning.
I wanted to do everything my college philosophy degree didn’t teach me: hauling manure, baling hay, chopping wood and milking cows. I wanted to learn to drive a buggy and immerse myself in the deep spirituality of their ways.
I’ve been writing about the Amish my whole adult life, but I wanted — at least for a month or two — to live like the Amish. Not to become Amish — that ship has sailed — but to live like them for a while and then go back to my day job, hopefully profoundly and spiritually refreshed by the experience. I’d become a better husband and future father from it. It would be the most difficult thing I’d ever do, but in the end, I’d be better for it.
I have many Amish friends who would take me in, but me and a TV crew? That was the challenge.
One Amish man startled me by suggesting: “Why don’t you and your wife just rent out our farmhouse, dress like us and pretend to be Amish, no one would ever know.”
Most outsiders erroneously assume that all Amish have a theological objection to photography, but that isn’t the case. Some have theological objections, others sociological qualms and others none at all.
I knew finding a family wouldn’t be easy, but I thought offering a wholesome, insightful show to counter the current crop of TV fiction while deepening my Amish experience was a noble goal. So, I undertook a months-long journey, which I made at the production company’s behest and my own expense.
It was a journey that took me on a grueling, sometimes harrowing search. Along the way, I learned a lot about myself and even more about the Amish.
In the end, I did find some families willing to take me in and open their homes to TV crews. None of us were doing it for the pay (reality TV pay is paltry unless your name is Snookie), although I will admit the exposure would put The Amish Cook column on sound ground forever and that was appealing.
Hollywood, however, wants big, loud personalities and — in the end — myself and my Amish friends were told we didn’t fit the bill. Big and loud may well work for shows about repo-men, gator wrestlers, animal psychics, pawn shop owners and cake decorators. But after 20 years of being The Amish Cook’s editor, I think people are drawn to the Amish for precisely the opposite reason such aforementioned shows are popular: The Amish represent a step back, a deep breath, a connection to a time when tablets, smartphones, and wi-fi didn’t rule our lives. People    don’t want Honey Boo Boo in a bonnet, they want  quietude, serenity and honesty.
I don’t think a program about the Amish need be a staid, somber, boring documentary, but it doesn’t have to fit the shout-filled cookie cutter reality-show mold either.
In a career littered with the debris of missed opportunities, I’m not sure this one’s over yet. I have a hunch that there’s a tremendous appetite out there for a more cerebral, sensible show about the Amish, one that is fun but also respectful, educational and entertaining. Why don’t you decide by watching the clip yourself? If enough readers view and support the effort, it can become a real reality. Watch a free clip by visiting www.theamishcookonline.com/amishreality.
Meanwhile, checkers anyone?
Try this recipe from the archives:
Molasses Cupcakes
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon ground ginger
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
½ teaspoon baking soda
½ teaspoon salt
2 egg whites, slightly beaten
2/3 cups molasses
2/3 cups water
6 tablespoons cooking oil
powdered sugar, sifted (optional)
Line sixteen 2 ½-inch muffin cups with paper bake cups; set aside. In a medium mixing bowl, stir together flour, baking powder, ginger, cinnamon, baking soda and salt. In a small mixing bowl, stir together the egg whites, molasses, water and oil. Stir molasses mixture into flour mixture just till blended.
Spoon into prepared muffin cups.
Bake in a 350-degree oven for 15-20 minutes or till cupcakes spring back when pressed lightly in center. If desired, sprinkle with powdered sugar. Serve warm or cool.

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